Intuitive & integrative approach
Coaching
Intuitive 1:1 Coaching with Esty Ubuntu
Coming Home
to Myself
A coaching journey that meets you exactly where you are, and holds space for all of you to arrive.
Book a Clarity ConsultationHealing isn't linear.
It's an intuitive flow.
What if you didn't need to push harder to get unstuck? What if the missing piece wasn't more discipline, but more you?
My coaching is rooted in the belief that lasting change happens when we tend to the whole person: the nervous system, the story, the lineage, the body, the dreams. Together, we map your patterns, not to fix you, but to understand you.
We use a blend of grounded tools and soulful practices: Human Design insight, parts work, EFT-style regulation, hypnotherapy, and ancestral and oracle wisdom. The goal is to help you feel safe enough to shift what's been running quietly in the background.
I'm less interested in pushing you toward productivity and more devoted to helping you build inner resources, nervous-system steadiness, self-trust, and sustainable rhythms that actually fit your life.
Your Guide
Esty Ubuntu: The Neurospicy Oracle
I came to this work through two decades of navigating my own healing, as a neurodivergent woman, an educator, a grief-holder, and someone who spent a long time searching for support that actually made sense for her system.
Before coaching, I spent years as an educator, school leader, and instructional coach — holding space for others to grow while quietly doing my own inner work on the side. Eventually, those two paths merged.
I'm a certified Quantum Alignment System practitioner (which integrates Human Design, EFT tapping, sound frequencies, and flower essences), a trained hypnotherapist, a grief coach trained in the Grief Recovery Method, and a writing coach. I work somatically and intuitively, meaning we follow what your system actually responds to, not a rigid protocol.
As a neurospicy girlie myself, I know a lot about knowing all the things you're supposed to do, and still not being able to get to the root of what needs to shift. That's exactly the gap this work is designed to close.
Choose Your Path
Different clients come in through different doors. Here's how we can work together, from a single session to a full immersive journey.
Start Here
Mapping the Journey
A Clarity & Alignment Session
Not sure where to begin? This is the session for that. We spend time together clarifying where you are, what's underneath the surface, and what your next steps might look like, whether you choose to continue working with me or not. You'll leave with a custom Soul Map PDF, intuitive guidance, and tangible tools you can use right away.
This session is for you if you're in a life transition, feeling overwhelmed or spiritually scattered, holding big dreams but unsure where to begin, or simply longing to feel seen and grounded in your truth.
- Private 1:1 Zoom session
- Grounding ritual + intention setting
- Oracle insight + intuitive reflection
- Deep inquiry into current themes
- Custom Soul Map PDF (within 48 hrs)
- Key themes, prompts + next-step guidance
(moving to $444 later this year)
The Gentle Return — 6 Sessions
Taste the Work.
Go at your own pace.
The Gentle Return is for you if you want to begin exploring without committing to an intensive deep-dive. Over six sessions, we move through the areas most alive for you right now, whether that's ancestral patterns, inner child work, grief, relationship healing, or something you can't quite name yet. We follow your system, not a fixed script. Each session builds on the last, and you get to taste a variety of modalities to find what genuinely resonates.
This container is spacious, curious, and designed for nervous systems that need ease, no hustle vibes on this healing journey.
- 6 private 1:1 Zoom sessions
- Soulweaver Sanctuary access (3 months)
- Coaching portal for between-session support
- Assignments, reflections + gentle accountability
- Welcome kit + curriculum matched to your journey
- Introductory QHD: type, authority, strategy
payment plan available
The Full Map — 12 Sessions
Go deeper.
Come home.
The Full Map is for those who are ready to do the deeper work, to move through real transformation rather than surface shifts. Over twelve sessions, we create enough space to unwind old stories, rewire nervous-system patterns, and tend to the roots rather than just the branches. This is where the real integration happens: where the insight stops being intellectual and starts becoming embodied.
This is for the person who's done the reading, attended the workshops, understood the concepts, and knows something deeper is waiting to shift.
- 12 private 1:1 Zoom sessions
- Soulweaver Sanctuary access (6 months)
- Coaching portal for between-session support
- Assignments, reflections + gentle accountability
- Welcome kit + full curriculum materials
- 1 year access to To Be Magnetic (self-hypnosis)
- QHD levels 1 + 2: type, centers, profile + more
payment plan available
Bespoke Sessions
Want to go deep on one specific area? These standalone sessions let you move directly into focused healing work. They can also be added into any coaching container.
Ancestral Healing
Sacred space to listen, release, and rewrite what you've inherited.
Inner Child Healing
Reconnect, repair, and reclaim your joy, safety, and emotional truth.
Shadow Work
Where shame softens, truths emerge, and your full self is welcomed home.
Ancestral Healing
This session is for you if you're...
- Feeling disconnected from your roots or identity
- Repeating emotional or relational patterns from your family
- Carrying grief, shame, or burdens that don't feel like yours
- Curious about your ancestral gifts, wisdom, or resilience
- Seeking to honor your lineage while writing a new story
What you'll receive
- Private 1:1 Zoom session
- Grounding ritual + oracle pull
- Guided visualization to connect with your lineage
- Gentle inquiry into inherited beliefs or patterns
- Reframing exercises + ritual suggestions
- Personalized integration guide with prompts
Inner Child Healing: Reconnect, Repair, Reclaim
This session is for you if you're...
- Struggling with people-pleasing, self-doubt, or emotional reactivity
- Stuck in patterns of abandonment, fear, or perfectionism
- Longing to feel more emotionally safe, seen, or self-compassionate
- Aware that past wounds are impacting present relationships
- Ready to reclaim childlike joy and creative freedom
What you'll receive
- Private 1:1 Zoom session
- Grounding + co-regulation exercise
- Guided inner child visualization or hypnotic journey
- Somatic practices and reparenting prompts
- Optional oracle pull + journaling support
- Personalized post-session guide with rituals + affirmations
Meeting Your Shadow with Compassion & Courage
This session is for you if you're...
- Stuck in patterns of self-doubt or people-pleasing
- Overwhelmed by emotional triggers you can't fully explain
- Wrestling with anger, grief, or fear you've tried to suppress
- Tired of performing or hiding parts of who you are
- Ready to turn toward your shadow, not away from it
What you'll receive
- Private 1:1 Zoom session held with deep presence
- Grounding + emotional safety practices
- Gentle inquiry into shadow parts and unmet needs
- Guided journaling, visualization, or parts dialogue
- Optional oracle insight to mirror what's rising
- Personalized post-session guide with integration prompts
Intuitive Gifts
Awaken and trust what you already know.
Grief Integration
Space to witness, tend to, and move through grief on your terms.
Writing Mentorship
Reclaim your voice and let your stories breathe on the page.
Awaken Your Intuitive Gifts: Trust What You Already Know
This session is for you if you're...
- Questioning your intuitive hits or second-guessing your inner voice
- Curious about symbols, dreams, spirit communication, or oracle tools
- Longing to connect more deeply with your spiritual self
- Ready to stop outsourcing decisions and trust your body's knowing
- Looking for practices to ground and grow your intuitive power
What you'll receive
- Private 1:1 Zoom session
- Intuition type exploration (claircognizant, clairsentient, clairvoyant)
- Energetic clearing + grounding practice
- Personalized intuitive rituals and journaling prompts
- Oracle guidance + card spreads for deepening your practice
- Post-session guide with insights and next steps
Grief Integration
This session is for you if you're...
- Moving through loss — of a person, relationship, identity, or dream
- Carrying grief that feels stuck, unprocessed, or unnamed
- Looking for a container that honors grief without rushing through it
- Ready to let grief be witnessed rather than managed
What you'll receive
- Private 1:1 Zoom session
- Grief Recovery Method-informed inquiry
- IFS-informed somatic and parts work
- Space for witnessing without agenda
- Personalized integration guide and ritual suggestions
Writing Mentorship
This session is for you if you're...
- Longing to write but feeling blocked, scared, or unsure where to start
- Working on a creative project that needs tending
- Using writing as a healing or sense-making tool
- Ready to let your voice take up space on the page
What you'll receive
- Private 1:1 Zoom session
- Creative inquiry into your writing life and blocks
- Generative writing prompts designed for your project
- Feedback and reflection on your voice, not just your craft
- Post-session guide with prompts and practices
What Clients Say
The gentle return package with Esty was exactly what I needed to start me on my healing journey. When I started I was in survival mode, so disconnected from myself and full of old limiting beliefs. Each session helped me to see myself again in a totally new way, with compassion and love. Esty is so intuitive and has a gift for making people feel safe enough to share and be vulnerable.
The Gentle Return — 6 Sessions
Working with Esther was pure magic. From the moment we began, I felt completely supported and guided through a transformative experience. Her intuitive insights and the tools she used created a safe and inspiring space for me to release and let go of the past. Esther has a true gift, and I feel so grateful to have had this incredible session with her.
1:1 Coaching Session
Ready when you are
Let's map your journey together.
Whether you continue working with me after or not, you'll leave the consultation session with clarity and tools you can use right now.
$444$150
Introductory investment: moving to $444 later this year
Client LovE
How would you describe your overall experience in this program?
Transformative beyond my expectations
Client: Joanna Walker
The gentle return package with Esty was exactly what I needed to start me on my healing journey. When I started I was in survival mode, so disconnected from myself and full of old limiting beliefs and boundaries that were now restrictive and isolating, rather than helpful. Each session helped me to see myself again in a totally new way, with compassion and love. Esty is so intuitive and has a gift for making people feel safe enough to share and be vulnerable. I am also someone who frequently needs a lot of time to think before I answer - I never felt rushed with Esty but she also somehow knew when to add more context / ask a follow up question vs when to stay quiet and give me more time.
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Signature Session
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The Gentle Return (6 Sessions)
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The Full Map (12 sessions)