About Me

A Path of Patterns and Possibilities

Welcome to my cozy corner of the internet—where healing, growth, and creative magic come together. I’m Esther Milanzi, an intuitive coach, educator, writer, and seeker of patterns and meaning in the everyday. I’ve spent my life weaving threads of ancestral wisdom, cultural exploration, and personal transformation into a tapestry of offerings designed to help you heal, grow, and step into your fullest expression.

My Journey: From People-Pleasing to Purpose-Driven

Born in the USA with South African roots, my life has been a journey of discovery—of self, others, and the world around me. Living abroad for over a decade in places like Thailand, Vietnam, and now Bali, Indonesia, I’ve learned to release the need for external validation and the exhausting hustle of people-pleasing. Instead, I’ve leaned into self-reflection, intention setting, and the profound work of deconditioning desires that weren’t truly mine.

Through these experiences, I’ve embraced my identity as a neurodiverse, nicheless creative who finds joy and purpose in seeing patterns and unlocking potential—whether through the lens of a birth chart, a human design chart, or the words of a client’s first draft.

Estyubuntu

“The magic is already within you; I’m just here to help you uncover it.”

Estyubuntu

“Deconditioning, nervous system care, and intuitive alignment are the ingredients to your liberation. Activate all three, and you’ll find your way home.”

My work & Offerings

A Blend of Ancestral Wisdom, Energetic Alignment, & Creative Discovery

My coaching is rooted in understanding—of self, of lineage, of the nervous system. I believe that healing ancestral trauma and understanding the stories that shaped us can pave the way for profound personal growth. Clients have called me "calmingly confrontational" and "an energetic chiropractor," reflecting my ability to hold compassionate space while helping you realign with your truth.

Some of the ways I work include:

  • Intuitive Coaching: Guiding you through self-reflection, energetic alignment, and actionable steps toward your goals.

  • Oracle Readings & Ancestral Work: Using tools like the Secrets of the Ancestors Oracle Deck to tap into your inner wisdom and connect with your lineage.

  • Creative Writing & Storytelling: Helping writers, dreamers, and healers find their voice, craft their stories, and share their gifts with the world.

  • Workshops & Retreats: Whether it's a moon circle, a grief workshop, or a 21-day retreat, I create spaces where you can explore, rest, and grow.

Stay tuned for 2025 Dates!

A Lifelong Learner Just Like You

I’m passionate about learning and sharing tools for growth. Whether it’s exploring Ayurvedic practices, deepening my ancestral healing journey, or refining my understanding of human design, I’m constantly seeking new ways to heal, connect, and thrive—and I love passing those insights on to my community.

Dive Into My World

I write about my journeys on my Substack, where you’ll find:

  • Reflections on living abroad and learning to let go of old narratives.

  • Insights on nervous system regulation and deconditioning.

  • Practical tools for intention setting, storytelling, and creative exploration.

Let’s Connect

Whether you’re here to heal, write, reflect, or simply explore, I’m so glad you’ve found your way to EstyUbuntu. Let’s create magic together—one intention, one story, one breakthrough at a time.